St Patricks Marist College

 

Parenting Resources in our library
 
The library has a number of resources that parents might find useful when looking for information about raising children.
 
Parents wishing to borrow any of the resources should contact a member of the library staff to organize a borrowing card.
 
  1. Books
  2. DVDs
  3. Internet sites
 
1. BOOKS
 

Parenting in practice
 
Author : Joseph Degeling & Christine Iangridge
 
This book talks about how to put parenting into practice:
   ● What is parenting
   ● Reflect on parenting style                      
   ● introduce and affirm clear boundaries
   ● set realistic consequences and rewards
   ● nuture the relationship, be flexible and approachable
   ● Look after yourself
 
The secret of happy children
 
Author: Steve Biddulph
 
This book is a good guide in helping parents with parent-child communication from babyhood to teens as well as becoming a stronger, more loving, more definite and more relaxing parent.
 
Exceptionally gifted children
 
Author: Miraca U.M.Gross
 
The book examines the origin, development and school histories of 15 Australian children who are among the most remarkably gifted young people ever to be identified and studied in any country through the first ten years of a longitudinal research program.
 
Internet for kids
 
Author: Tim Hagg
 
This book explores the Internet in terms of electronic mail, file transfer protocol, Usenet newsgroup, Gopher, video, chat, Telnet, and World Wide Web. It also introduces numerous sites that can enrich a family’s experience in cyberspace.
 
Adolescence: a guide for parents
 
Author: Michael Carr-Gregg & Erin Shale
 
This is an easy reading book discussing:
● the three question in an adolescent’s life: “Am I normal”, “Who am I?”, “What is my       place in the world?”
● help adolescents knowing how to handle depression, suicidal feelings, relationships and emerging sexuality, drug, eating disorders – before they become crisis.
● good parenting as to how to provide adolescents with an environment where they feel safe, listen to and valued, how to set /negotiate boundaries, and raise children to be resilient adults and cope with difficulties in life
 
Raising boys: why boys are different, and how to help them become happy and well- balanced men
 
Author: Steve Biddulph
 
The book highlights
       ● the three stages of boyhood
       ● testosterone, how it changes behaviour and what to do about it
       ● how boys’ brain are different
       ● how mothers teach boys about life and love
       ● The five essentials that fathers provide
       ● boys’ roles in school and community
       ● how to develop a healthy sexuality
 
Real boys’ voices
 
Author: William S. Pollack
 
In Real Boys’ Voices, Dr. William Pollack lets us hear how American boys themselves describe their isolation, depression, longing, love, and hope. In this pages, boys speak eloquently and truthfully about such topic as shame, bulling and teasing, the pressure to fit in, addictions, how they see the lives of the men they know, the importance of their parents, their own spiritual and creative experiences, friends with other boys and with girls, being gay, and coping with divorce and other losses, including the death of a friend or parent.
 
Real boys
 
Author: William S. Pollack
 
Based on Pollack’s groundbreaking research at Harvard Medical School for more than two decades, Real Boys explores this generation’s “silent crisis”: why so many boys are sad, lonely, and confused although they may appear tough, cheerful, and confident. Pollack changes conventional expectations about manhood and masculinity that encourage parents to treat boys as little men, raising them though a toughening process that drives their true emotions underground
 
Boys’ stuff: boys talking about what matters
 
Author: Wayne Martino & Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli
 
In Boys’ Stuff, teenagers write about their lives. It’s honest, raw and real. They talk about what the rules are, how they break them, and what really cool. It also talks about what guys think about friends, parents, sex, sport, drugs and everything else that matters.
 
Ready, set, grow!
 
Author: Sally MacGuire
 
Ready, Set, Grow! is an easy reading book and it discusses how teenager handle a bad hair day, to look good on the outside; and how to keep healthy without giving up hot chips, not be a supermodel or superman.
 
Hers and his : gender roles in Australia
 
Author: Richard Linden
 
Hers and his looks at gender roles and gender equity in Australia. It also discuss different issues concerning body image, gender and health, family, homosexuality, education and sexual harassment.
 
Pregnancy
 
Author: Kirsten Lamb
 
Dr. K. Lamb did her medical training at Cambridge University and the Royal London Hospital. In her book, she explains the facts of conception, pregnancy and the delivery of a new baby. It also discusses teenage pregnancy, the options when a pregnancy is unwanted, and how to avoid unwanted pregnancy. The book looks at the issues behind medical advances in pregnancy.
 
Reviving Ophelia
 
Author: Mary Pipher, PhD.
 
Clinical psychologist and psychotherapist Mary Pipher, Ph. D., is alarmed by the devastating effects contemporary society can have on young women. In Reviving Ophelia she has provided a passionate account of her response to their problems, and
issued a call to arms and offers parents compassion, strength and strategies with which to revive these Ophelias’ lost sense of self.
 
Fighting invisible tigers : a stress management guide teens
 
Author: Earl Hipp
 
This book is geared to teenagers. It looks at:
  • What stress is.
  • How to cope with the stress.
  • What to do when you can’t cope.
  • Life skills----help you become a stress management wizard.
 
Surviving Year 12 : a sanity kit for students and their parents
 
Author: Michael Carr-Gregg
 
In this book, Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg shows both students and parents how to keep the exams—and the year in general—in perspective.
 
Taming the black dog : a guide to overcoming depression
 
Author: Bev Aisbett
 
Taming the Black Dogis a simple guide to managing depression. This book, with its unique blend of wit, information and practical tips, will be an invaluable guide for sufferers of depression and anyone with a fit of “the blues”.
 
Depression : lifting the cloud
 
Author: Christine Read
 
Dr. Christine Read helps to lift the cloud on this misunderstood topic by explaining treatment and self-help options.
 
Stress & depression
 
Author: Sarah Lennard-Brown
 
The book discusses the following:
ü      Introduction of stress and depression.
ü      Stress and change.
ü      The responses when people are stressed.
ü      Techniques to cope with stress.
ü      The symptoms and causes of depression.
ü      The treatment of depression.
 
My life as a side effect
 
Author: Milissa Deitz
 
My Life as a Side Effect is a loose dairy of Milissa Deitz’s depression and a searingly honest account of her own journey towards diagnosis, acceptance and management. This book also includes the testimonials of other suffers who have struggled with, and learned to manage depression. There are also interviews with medical professionals and information from support groups, including facts and strategies for dealing with depression on a daily basis.
 
Bronte’s story
 
Author: Bronte Cullis and Steve Bibb
 
Bronte Cullis was the Melbourne teenager whose battle with anorexia captured the hearts of Australians in a series of stories and documentaries by Ray Martin for the Nine Network.
 
Dealing with bullying
 
Author: Yvette Solomon & John Coleman
 
Bullying can be nightmare because of the fear it creates. In the end, it becomes a vicious circle of fear and threat. In order to stop bullying, it is necessary to break that circle once and for all.
 
Bullying and youth violence
 
Editor: Justin Healey
 
Vol. 154 of Issue of Society, dealing with preventing bullying at school and the attitudes, and exposure, to violence by young people in the community.
 

 
 
 
 
 
2. DVDs
 

Name
VHS/DVD
Call No.
Managing change
DVD
PD 070
Taking risks
DVD
PD 056
Managing stress
DVD
PD 039
Friends
DVD
PD 055
Where am I going?
DVD
PD 100
Feeling good
DVD
PD 098
Belonging
DVD
PD 097
More than friends
DVD
PD 099
Say no to diet
DVD
FT 070
A everyday miracle: raising teenager
DVD
S 344
Attention Deficit Disorder
DVD
EDU 017
Autism, a stranger in the family
DVD
EDU 017
The behaviour business
DVD
S 421

3. Internet sites
 
Raising children network: the Australian parenting website http://raisingchildren.net.au
 
Areas covered in this site include:
. behaviour
. connecting and communicating
. development
. health and daily care
. nutrition
. play and learning
. safety
. sleep
. family management
. looking after yourself
. parents like me
. pregnancy
. for fathers
. work & family
. dealing with separation
. children with a disability
. from babies to grown-up
 
 
Parenting.org www.parenting.org
 
A parenting site produced by Boys Town of America. Areas of advice include:
 
. behavior
. school
. medical
. extra
            Role modelling for children
            Imaginary friends: is it okay to believe
            Making family exercise fun
            Development delays in children
            Teens and money management
            Video games guidelines
 
 
 
ABC Parenting www.abc.net.au/parenting
 
The ABC (Channel 2) has partnered with the “Raising Children Network” to provide “in a nutshell” information about all aspects of child rearing. Some of the areas covered on this site include:
 
. from newborn to school age
. children & media
. classification & ratings
. nutrition basics
. parenting in pictures
. popular topics
            Autism
            Breastfeeding method
            ADHD
            Childhood obesity
            Bullying
 
 
 
Child and youth health http://www.cyh.com
 
A very good website with health information from birth to young adult. 
            .          
Parenting and child health
Family and relationship
            Growth & development
            Emotions & behaviour
            Healthy lifestyle
            Nutrition
            Infection and immunization
            Illness and health problem
            Safety and first aids
            Disabilities
 
Kids’ health
Your family
            Your body
            Your food
            Your health
            Your school
            Your feelings
            Your safety
            Nearly teens
            Simply for you
            Fun & games
 
Teens health
            Healthy body
            Healthy mind
            Relationship
            Society and you
            Drug and alcohol
 
Young adult health
            Healthy body
            Healthy mind
            Relationships
            Sexual health
            Drug & alcohol
            Our society
 
NSW commission for children & young people www.kids.nsw.gov.au
“The NSW Commission for Children and Young People is an independent organisation working with others to make NSW a better place for children and young people.”
 
Parenting my teen
 
 http://parentingmyteen.com
 
An American site that looks at the issues associated with raising teenagers.
 
Drug info @ your library
 
http://www.druginfo.sl.nsw.gov.au/
 
 
This site is a joint initiative of Community Drug Strategies NSW Health and the State Library of NSW.